Parenting a gifted kid

Ellen Says: I have been an educator for 14 years and felt that I could always learn new in how to deal with children but my most rewarding and challenging job EVER was raising Rallione "my gifted child". As a mother of gifted child, I felt like I was “flying blind” trying to meet his unique educational, social and emotional needs. This situation was only made worse by mixed messages from friends and parents of non-gifted kids.

On the other hand, I was told: “All kids are gifted” (and, therefore, my child shouldn’t be given any special consideration) and, conversely that: “Your child is so bright, you’ve got nothing to worry about.” However, the reality, especially for my exceptionally gifted child, was that, in my heart, I knew that things weren’t perfect….that he had special needs I was unable to meet. I felt like a failure because I couldn’t find a positive learning environment for his or adequately address his social and emotional issues. I often felt isolated and helpless, and worried a lot about how I was failing as a parent.

Fortunately,we somehow survived, with the good people around... seeking out the best developmental pediatrician in town, therapists, and a few caring educators esp. Teacher Liza Ilano as issues and crises arose during his different developmental stages…..but I realized that having the support of a parent (AND a professional) who’s “been there and done that”, openly sharing their wisdom, support and encouragement would have been a God-send.

Therefore, this is my mission: to let you, as a parent of a gifted child, know that you’re not alone, that parenting gifted kids can be very fun but, at times, extremely challenging, and that, working together, you can achieve your dreams. My goal is to empower you as a parent. Create more joy on your parenting journey. Your happiness and satisfaction as a parent are critical to both your growth and the growth of your child.