Self-love...

Ellen says: We recieve mixed messages about taking good care of ourselves. Love thy neighbor as thyself means to love thyself and thy neighbor.
Yet, self-love often is confused with selfishness and conceit. We are selfish when we do not love and accept ourselves, and attempt to take from others to fill that emptiness.
Conceit indicates low self-worth and attempt to conceal it. It is difficult to extend to others what you have been not able to give yourself.
Take good care of yourself so you can care about the rest of us.