Communication bring us closer

Ellen says: When we are considering whether to share our feelings with a family member, whether to discuss sensitive topics, we almost always factor in how close we are to the person. Are we close enough to discuss this? But this question is a self fulfilling prophecy. If you avoid discussing a topic with a family member because you don't feel close enough, you will not get closer. If you open yourself up to a family member, those discussion will bring you closer.

Me and my husband Rinzo trying to put a good show to my children, not telling to them other harder situation which regards to finances, so that they can concentrate more in their studies even in truth we both know that our situation is tenuous. But we knew it had to stop . "It is hard to get out of the hole when you just keeping digging it deeper."

Finally, we chose to tell the truth. We told to our children that they would have to try a different way to live...We were surprised with our children's reaction, instead of showing that they are sad, sharing all these only drew us closer together.